American Psychological Association Deems ‘Traditional Masculinity Harmful’
The American Psychological Association released a set of guidelines for physicians who work with boys and men where they marked traditional masculinity as “harmful.”
According to the APA, traditional masculinity ideology condones behaviors of “anti-femininity, achievement, eschewal of the appearance of weakness, and adventure, risk, and violence.”
Simply put, in an article published by the APA after the release of the Guidelines for Psychological Practice With Boys and Men, “The main thrust of the subsequent research is that traditional masculinity—marked by stoicism, competitiveness, dominance and aggression—is, on the whole, harmful.”
Lifesite News reports that the study finds that if men are “socialized in this way” they are “less likely to engage in healthy behaviors.”
The study notes that traditionally masculine men are less likely to share their emotions, less likely to care for their mental and physical health and are at a higher risk to commit suicide. The guidelines also touch on gender binaries. Ryon McDermott, Ph.D., who helped draft the guidelines asked, “What is gender in the 2010s?” He answered, “It’s no longer just this male-female binary.”
According to the study, traditional masculinity is viewed as a negative thing because men could feel forced to suppress “gender-nonconforming” feelings which can lead…
Open Heaven 15 January 2019 Tuesday Daily Devotional By Pastor E. A. Adeboye – Staying Connected to Jesus
Topic: Staying Connected to Jesus (Open Heaven 15 January 2019)
Memorise: “Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me.”- John 15:4
Read: John 15:1-7 (KJV)
1 I am the true vine, and my Father is the husbandman.
2 Every branch in me that beareth not fruit he taketh away: and every branch that beareth fruit, he purgeth it, that it may bring forth more fruit.
3 Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you.
4 Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me.
5 I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.
6 If a man abide not in me, he is cast forth as a branch, and is withered; and men gather them, and cast them into the fire, and they are burned.
7 If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.
Bible in One Year: Mark 1-2, Isaiah 13:1-16
Open Heaven 15 January 2019 Tuesday MESSAGE:
Having received reassurance from the Lord yesterday that we are not alone, we need to reflect on what we need to do to remain connected to Him always. Every child of God must be conscious of the fact that God’s righteousness means He will never renege on His word. His promises such as those in Deuteronomy 31:8 and Matthew 28:20 are sacrosanct. However, there is a possibility of us abandoning God when we are carried away by the lustful desires of this life. An example of someone who deserted God was Demas. Concerning him, in 2 Timothy 4:10, it is written:
“For Demas hath forsaken me, having loved this present world, and is departed unto Thessalonica…”
It is unfortunate that some preachers teach eternal security, saying that once saved, you are always saved. This is a lie of the devil because examples abound of people who abandoned their first love for God or even abandoned God entirely. Judas Iscariot was once numbered among the twelve but he fell away (Acts 1:16-20). The question then is, if Judas who was one of the twelve disciples chosen by Jesus Himself could fall away, who then cannot? We therefore need to be watchful to keep our place in Christ. As seen in today’s memory verse, it is our responsibility to stay connected to Jesus.
Our Bible reading today reveals the danger of not staying connected to Jesus Christ. Anyone who for any reason at all disconnects himself from the Lord will dry up spiritually, and this will affect all other areas of life because the spiritual controls the physical. However, when we stay connected to Jesus, there are bundles of blessings awaiting us. How do we stay connected to Jesus, and what blessings can we derive from doing so? The Lord answers these questions in John 15:7 saying:
“If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.”
We stay connected to Jesus by abiding in His word. This means modelling our lives to the dictates and principles of His word. You need to back up your every thought and action with His word. Fruitfulness is the portion of those who stay connected to Jesus. In other words, goodness and mercy will be partners of such people. Staying connected to Jesus requires walking intimately with Him. When you do this, His blessing in John 14:27 will be your portion to enjoy. It says:
“Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.”
Open Heaven 15 January 2019 Tuesday Prayer Point:
Holy Spirit Divine, please help me to remain ever in tune with my Master, Jesus, for unbroken partnership.
Open Heaven 15 January 2019 Tuesday Hymn 10: I Have Decided To Follow Jesus
I have decided to follow Jesus;
I have decided to follow Jesus;
I have decided to follow Jesus;
No turning back, no turning back.
The world behind me, the cross before me;
The world behind me, the cross before me;
The world behind me, the cross before me;
No turning back, no turning back.
Though none go with me, I still will follow;
Though none go with me, I still will follow;
Though none go with me, I still will follow
No turning back, no turning back.
My cross I’ll carry, till I see Jesus;
My cross I’ll carry, till I see Jesus;
My cross I’ll carry, till I see Jesus;
No turning back, no turning back.
Will you decide now to follow Jesus?
Will you decide now to follow Jesus?
Will you decide now to follow Jesus?
No turning back, no turning back.
Open Heaven 15 January 2019 Tuesday Daily Devotional guide was written by Pastor E.A. Adeboye, the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, one of the largest evangelical church in the world and also the President of Christ the Redeemer’s Ministries. The Open Heavens devotional application is available across all mobile platforms and operating systems: iOS, Android, Blackberry, Nokia, Windows Mobile and PC. Open Heaven 15 January 2019 Tuesday Daily Devotional.
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Netanyahu confirmed the strike, calling the mission part of the country’s “impressive success” against militants.
“We have operated with impressive success in thwarting Iran from establishing a military foothold in Syria, in the framework of which the military has struck hundreds of times against Iranian and Hezbollah targets,” Netanyahu said.
“In the last 36 hours alone, the air force struck storage facilities with Iranian weapons at the Damascus International Airport. The bulk of recent attacks show how we are more committed than ever to act against Iran in Syria, as we promised.”
According to The Daily Mail, Syria’s official news agency said many of Israel’s missiles were shot down, but an airport warehouse was hit.
Also Sunday, Israeli military said that a sixth tunnel dug by the Lebanese military group had been found. Militants use the tunnels to sneak across the border and launch attacks into Israel.
Military spokesman Lt. Col. Jonathan Conricus said as part of Operation Northern Shield, the final tunnel was the largest found and went from under a Lebanese home into Israeli territory. Conricus said the tunnel would be destroyed soon.
“We have achieved the goal that we set out to achieve,” he said….
Is Call the Midwife Taking a Pro-Abortion Turn in Season 8?
The latest season of Call the Midwife has a major abortion storyline that is drawing applause from pro-choice viewers and concern from pro-lifers who watch the show.
The show, which first aired in 2012, follows the story of London midwives in the 1950s and 1960s, when abortion was illegal. They live in a Catholic convent called “Nonnatus House.”
Although Call the Midwife has tackled the issue of illegal abortion in at least two previous seasons, the subject is more prevalent in Season 8, according to cast and crew members.
The first episode of Season 8 shows an aspiring model named Cath who had undergone an illegal abortion entering Nonnatus House, where she is sheltered by Nurse Valerie Dyer. Cath miscarries at the house as a policeman sits downstairs, drinking tea, according to Radio Times.
“It’s a definite theme throughout the series, if you can say abortion is a theme,” actress Jennifer Kirby, who plays Dyer, told Radio Times. “Valerie obviously takes it to heart, because she’s so connected to that community. It’s where she’s from … so the idea that there’s something within the community, that women are having to go to this level – I think she feels it very personally.”
Kirby calls herself pro-choice and says there will be…
The decision could be cited in legal cases or parliamentary debates. Currently, assisting or encouraging someone’s death is illegal under the Suicide Act of 1961.
It’s not the first time the 35,000 members have been asked about this issue.
In 2014, 44.4% of respondents thought the RCP should be opposed to assisted dying, 31% thought it should be neutral or have no stance and 24.6% opted for the RCP being in favour.
The significance of this poll however is that the RCP will adopt a position of ‘neutral’ until two-thirds of the membership vote either way.
Speaking to Premier, Steve Fouch from the Christian Medical Fellowship said: “It is helpful for the Royal Colleges to be able to say ‘we do represent the views of our members’ and it’s quite clear…that the majority of doctors still do not feel comfortable with being involved with assisted dying and would prefer there not to be a change in the law.”
Fouch added that evidence from other countries shows the issue becomes a slippery slope when the law is changed.
He said: “Our worry is once you start to remove the safeguards for one group of people and say, effectively, ‘these lives are not worth saving’ you inevitably get pressure to extend it to other groups of people”.
The poll will ask the following questions via email:
1. What should the RCP’s position be on whether or not there should be a change in the law to permit…
South Carolina Proposes Legislation that Requires Ultrasound, Bans Aborting Babies with Heartbeats
Last Week, South Carolina introduced a bill that would make aborting a baby with a fetal heartbeat illegal.
According to Lifesite News, the H. 3020 bill, which was introduced last Monday, requires all women seeking an abortion to have an ultrasound to see if a fetal heartbeat can be detected. If a heartbeat is found and the patient wishes to go through with the abortion without having a “physical medical threat,” the doctor who performs the procedure can be fined up to $10,000 and sentenced to two years in jail.
Founder and CEO of Coastline Women’s Health Center Jeannie Smith praised the proposed legislation in an interview with WMBF saying, “This would hopefully bring an end to abortion in the state of South Carolina.”
South Carolina Representative, Steven Long (R-SC) agreed with Smith saying, “We have a moral obligation to defend life.” He continued, “The court system is primed and ready for a good piece of pro-life legislation. Now is the time we need to be pushing and fighting to get legislation like this passed.”
Others, however, see the bill as an “attack” on women’s rights, LifeSite News reports.
The bill is currently pending before the Judiciary Committee.
MPs will be deciding whether or not they want to back the terms of the Prime Minister’s negotiated deal.
Alex Cunningham, a Christian and the Labour MP for Stockton North, explained on Premier’s News Hour why he feels forced to vote out of sync with many of his constituents.
“Well the people in my constituency – when they voted they liked the idea of the extra money for the NHS – the £350m a week. They had issues with immigration and freedom of movement…but above all, I think they were hoping that they would get something better out of the Brexit deal.
“That’s not going to happen…what’s on the table actually puts us in a worse position than we would have been if we just remained members of the EU.
“So I think at this stage we’ve got to reject it and the Labour party’s position and my own personal position is we should be getting a Labour government. So we should have a general election and failing that, we should put the matter back to the people.”
Mrs May has insisted she’s secured valuable assurances from the EU on her Brexit deal – including on the Irish backstop.
In a speech in Stoke this morning, she warned MPs the public’s faith in democracy is at stake – if they vote down her Brexit deal tomorrow.
She also said not leaving the EU is now more likely than a no-deal exit even though there’s never been a referendum in the UK where the result has not been…
Transgender Dad Is Raising 5-Year-Old Transgender Child
The transgender father of a 5-year-old boy who wants to be a girl says he did not talk his child into becoming transgender, too.
The Daily Mail newspaper in London profiled a family Sunday that is receiving criticism and is being called “Britain’s first two-generation transgender family.” The 27-year-old transgender father, Greg, was born a girl and has had his breasts removed but has yet to have sex-reassignment surgery. His partner is 21-year-old Jody, the biological mother who considers herself heterosexual. They are not married, although they share the same last name.
They say their son started wearing dresses a year ago and wanted long hair and his nails painted. They now consider him a girl and call him Jayden. Jayden’s school treats him like a girl.
“She developed speech and immediately started saying, ‘I hate wearing boys’ clothes and everything about being a boy,’” Greg told the newspaper. “At first, we thought it was probably just a phase but it’s been consistent ever since. She is adamant she’s a girl.”
Jody said she “had a son one moment and a daughter the next.”
“It probably took me six months to start accepting that it was what Jayden really wanted,” Jody said. “It’s been like a grieving process for me, though. I do miss having a son and, as a baby, Jayden looked so much like a boy. I look back at photographs of him now, in…
People routinely throw coins into the famous tourist attraction in keeping with the legend that the act will bring good fortune and enable a return to the city.
From the start of April, the money will no longer be paid to Caritas to help the poor, but will be used by the city for restoration projects.
The proposal was reportedly approved by the council in December – drawing criticism from the Church.
Avvenire, the daily paper produced by the Italian Bishops’ Conference, described the city’s bureaucracy as “the enemy of the poor” in a front-page story headlined “money taken from the poorest”.
This isn’t the first time the Catholic charity has faced calls to stop collecting more than £1m from the Baroque fountain each year.
In 2017 Virginia Raggi, Rome’s mayor, made the same proposal but it was delayed for a year following widespread criticism.
The charity asked the mayor on Twitter to reverse her decision and reminded her of the “5,000 volunteers, 300 social workers and 145 catholic centres” involved with the charity.
Caritas, which was founded in Rome in 1971, relies on the donations from the fountain to help the city’s homeless and families struggling financially.
Premier has learned that the mayor of Rome is reconsidering the decision to divert the cash from the charity.
Catholic Journalist Andrea Gagliarducci who is based in Rome revealed to Premier: “I can give…
Swedish Government Denies Man’s Request to Put Jesus’ Name on License Plate, Says it Could ‘Cause Offense’
A Swedish man was denied the ability to put Jesus’ name on his license plate because officials said it could “cause offense.”
According to the Christian Post, Ceasar Kisangani Makombe wanted to put the Swedish word for Christ – Kristus – on his license plate, but the Swedish Transport Agency deemed it unacceptable.
According to The Local, both the Swedish words for Christ and Jesus are blocked from being placed on license plates because they contain religious matter and could “cause offense” to those who are not Christians.
Press officer for the Swedish Transport Agency Mikael Andersson told the outlet, “We deny any words that we believe can cause offense. Among other things, we say no to everything that has any religious connotations no matter which connotations.”
The Christian Post reports that so far, nearly 100 license plates have been denied by the department, a fact that Makombe finds puzzling. The Swedish man told the Göteborg Direkt – a regional newspaper – that since Sweden is a Christian country he was confused by the agency’s decision.
Makombe also asked fellow Christians to pray for his country and its officials. He said, “As a Christian, you should not make war on those who make decisions in this country, instead we must pray for them.”
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