Separating parents urged by Christian charity to protect kids from fighting

In honour of Family Mediation Week, the organisation has partnered with Wells Family Mediation to put together advice on how separated parents can show unity when raising their child.

Available on the charity’s website, the advice includes a short film and articles containing practical tips. It also includes advice for single Dads from Daniel Sherwin who runs the blog Dadsolo.

 

The advice includes:

  • Aim for a relaxed atmosphere at handovers, where the child does not pick up stress or conflict.
  • Protect your child from conflict between you and the other parent.
  • Always speak nicely of the other parent when in the child’s presence.
  • Use ‘we’ language to the child, to show that mum and dad talk about him/her and make decisions together.

Ian Soars, chief executive of Fegans, which provides children’s counselling and parenting support services across the South East, said: “Separation is an incredibly stressful and upsetting time, and we can’t always protect our children fully from the impact of a broken relationship. However, research shows that children benefit from shared parenting.

“This is not just about how much time they have with each parent – although that is important – but it is also about how they experience the relationship between their parents.”

The new short film gives the child’s perspective of family life after separation.

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Women Teaching Men Is ‘Out of Step With Scriptures’ .

Theologian John Piper
Theologian John Piper (John Piper/Facebook)

John Piper created quite the internet firestorm when he said that women should not teach aspiring pastors in seminary.

In a recent blog, Piper says:

the attempt to distinguish the seminary teaching role from the pastoral teaching role in such a way that the biblical restriction to men does not apply to the seminary teaching results in a serious inconsistency. That’s my argument.

The inconsistency is this: the more one succeeds in distinguishing the…

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I answer to Jesus alone, says tennis star amid Twitter controversy

Sandgren, 26, was forced to deny supporting the controversial alt-right movement when he received backlash over who he followed on social media.

He insisted he merely found “some of the content interesting”.

 

The world number 97 read a statement on Wednesday from his phone addressing the scrutiny of his political beliefs after losing in the Australian Open quarter-finals against South Korea’s Chung Hyeon.

He said: “With a handful of follows and some likes on Twitter, my fate has been sealed in your minds.

“You dehumanise with pen and paper and turn neighbour against neighbour. In so doing, you may actually find you’re hastening the hell you wish to avoid, the hell we all wish to avoid.

“It is my firm belief that the highest value must be placed on the virtue of each individual, regardless of gender, race, religion or sexual orientation.

“It’s my job to continue on this journey with the goal of becoming the best me I can and to embody the love Christ has for me, for I answer to Him and Him alone.”

Sandgren has since changed his Twitter bio to insist what he will “write all tweets on a napkin first to order my thoughts” and that tweets he liked or retweeted “are not endorsements”.

However, he has subsequently deleted all his messages on the social media platform bar one.

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What “The Shape of Water” Oscar nominations say about us

The Shape of Water received thirteen Academy Award nominations yesterday, one short of the record. The plot follows a mute custodian who develops a sexual relationship with a humanoid-amphibian creature.

Due to the film’s graphic nudity, I will not see it. As to why it received so many nominations, I defer to a film critic who noted: “Perhaps the best argument in its favor is that, in a weird way, it’s a film that speaks to our times. One could interpret ‘The Shape of Water’ as being about a mute woman who finds her voice with the help of her gay and African American friends to take down the sexually predatory, bigoted patriarchy.”

It seems that The Shape of Water celebrates “love” as defined however the characters choose to express it.

“Speaking your truth”

The prevailing theme of our culture is the belief that truth is whatever you believe it to be. Oprah Winfrey made headlines in her Golden Globes speech when she announced, “What I know for sure is that speaking your truth is the most powerful tool we all have.”

However, to claim that there is no such thing as absolute truth is to make an absolute truth claim. Nor does such a denial change the reality it denies.

More and more Americans are rejecting the concept of hell, but does their opinion change its existence? If I don’t believe the Queen of England exists, does my aristocratic atheism change anything about her reign?

The denial of absolute truth also leads to ethical quicksand: Americans view the 9/11 attacks as cowardly terrorism, while al-Qaeda celebrates them as a courageous defense of Islam. Is each viewpoint just “their truth”?

Of course, the rejection of objective truth leads inevitably to the rejection of objective sexual morality. Marriage becomes defined however its participants wish to define it. Your sexual identity is just that-yours. A sexual relationship between a human and a humanoid-amphibian creature becomes the plot for an Academy…

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I answer to Jesus only, says tennis star amid Twitter controversy

Sandgren, 26, was forced to deny supporting the controversial alt-right movement when he received backlash over who he followed on social media.

He insisted he merely found “some of the content interesting”.

 

The world number 97 read a statement on Wednesday from his phone addressing the scrutiny of his political beliefs after losing in the Australian Open quarter-finals against South Korea’s Chung Hyeon.

He said: “With a handful of follows and some likes on Twitter, my fate has been sealed in your minds.

“You dehumanise with pen and paper and turn neighbour against neighbour. In so doing, you may actually find you’re hastening the hell you wish to avoid, the hell we all wish to avoid.

“It is my firm belief that the highest value must be placed on the virtue of each individual, regardless of gender, race, religion or sexual orientation.

“It’s my job to continue on this journey with the goal of becoming the best me I can and to embody the love Christ has for me, for I answer to Him and Him alone.”

Sandgren has since changed his Twitter bio to insist what he will “write all tweets on a napkin first to order my thoughts” and that tweets he liked or retweeted “are not endorsements”.

However, he has subsequently deleted all his messages on the social media platform bar one.

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Bitcoin Broker Coinbase Hit $1 Billion in 2017

REUTERS/Benoit Tessier/IllustrationA Bitcoin (virtual currency) coin is seen in an illustration picture taken at La Maison du Bitcoin in Paris, France, June 23, 2017.

While most Bitcoin fortunes were made by early believers, many were also made in trading the cryptocurrency as exemplified by Coinbase, one of the largest digital currency brokers in the world. The San Francisco-based company saw revenues top $1 billion last year thanks to the explosive rise in cryptocurrency market.

“The company’s valuation has likely at least doubled since its last valuation of $1.6 billion in August,” a recent Recode report said. “Coinbase was only expected to do about $600 million in yearly revenue as of September 30, according to people with knowledge of the figures, but bitcoin’s run between Thanksgiving and Christmas boosted the company’s 2017 revenue to over $1 billion.”

Bitcoin currently commands the highest market capitalization of any cryptocurrency, worth around $175 billion in today’s valuation. However, it is far from being the only cryptocurrency out there suggesting that Coinbase’s $1 billion in revenue suggests it has become the most-used broker for bitcoin transactions.

Exchanges make their money from trading volume, taking a cut every time coins change hands between investors. Market-wide, trading volumes have held steady above $25 billion a day since late November after Bitcoin’s meteoric rise caught the attention of Wall Street veterans and Average Joes alike. Just recently, the company added 100,000 users in a span of three days.

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Blackburn church leaders rap BBC over Panorama integration show

Producers of the BBC programme – broadcast on Tuesday night – were accused by senior Anglican figures of painting an inaccurate picture of the Lancashire town and overlooking the work of faith groups to promote community cohesion.

The Bishop of Blackburn, Rt Rev Julain Henderson said: “The Diocese and Cathedral didn’t get the chance to take part in this documentary, so I urge the Panorama team to visit Blackburn again soon and tell the full story of what is happening here.

 

“We will be happy to speak to them.”

The show, named ‘White Fright’, claimed that Blackburn is becoming increasingly segregated along ethnic and religious lines.

Intended as a follow-up to a programme aired in 2007 – which did feature Blackburn Cathedral – it featured interviews with various members of the community about the state of race relations in the town.

 

Bishop Julian, went on to say: “There are challenges of course, but Blackburn is not unique in that regard and we are involved in many initiatives where people from different backgrounds live, work, play and associate together.”

“We engage together on topics of mutual interest at our active Anglican/Muslim forum.”

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