Being authentic on social media will tackle bad body image

There’s a warning hundreds of British teenagers are refusing to go to school because of how they look. It’s thought around 5 per cent could have body dysmorphic disorder, where sufferers believe they have flaws which often go unnoticed by others.

Jessie Smart, founder of Christian youth charity Belle Ministry, told Premier that excessive use of social media worsens body image because social media posts “aren’t representative of real life”.

 

She said: “Girls are thinking social media is having a positive influence on the way they see themselves when the scary thing is they are basing their validation and finding their affirmation in likes and comments.”

Smart said everyone can be part of the solution.

“It’s not conforming to these crazes and fads that come up and all the different standards and expectations that seem to flutter through society.

“Another side of it is being real on social media. Often we post the highlights and actually sometimes we need to take a step back and check that we are being authentic in what we’re putting out there.”

Smart also advised people to support those who feel negative towards their body by affirming their character, talents and gifts rather than outward appearance.

Listen to Jessie Smart speaking with Premier’s Cara Bentley here:

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Church ignored child sex abuse by ex-general synod member, says review

Jeremy Dowling, a lay preacher, school teacher and church employee, abused young boys in the 1970s and was jailed in 2015.

A review by the Diocese of Truro said several bishops were told about the abuse and did not act.

 

It found there was a “probable misunderstanding” by church leaders over a decision by the authorities not to prosecute Dowling in the 1970s.

Dowling became a member of general synod in 1977 and was communications officer for the Diocese of Truro from 2003 to 2009.

The school in Cornwall where Dowling carried out the abuse is not identified in the report.

But in September 1972 an unnamed canon, who was chairman of the board of governors, wrote to Bishop of Truro Maurice Key to inform him Dowling had admitted some sexual offences against boys and offered to resign.

In reply, the bishop said: “It is terribly said that his should have happened, not only because it is a tragedy for Jeremy Dowling, but it can be a real blow for the school and the Church.

“The devil is certainly a master at attacking where he can do most harm.”

The following December the director of public prosecutions decided not to prosecute Dowling.

The diocese review noted “the level of corroborative evidence to bring a successful prosecution of sexual abuse against a child was extremely high” but said the Church had “its own responsibilities to judge such behaviour”.

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Church of England report shows people are being failed by local authority schemes

The schemes which are known as Local Welfare Assistance, aim to provide food, fuel and furniture to people in crisis.

However, the report, Not Making Ends Meet, from The Children’s Society and the Church of England found that increasing numbers of destitute people are turning instead to food banks and other voluntary agencies for help.

 

The Children’s Society chief executive Matthew Reed said in a statement: “Families in need of financial crisis support are often experiencing one of the hardest times of their life, such as fleeing domestic violence or experiencing a serious mental or physical health problem.

“It’s vital that when they need help to buy food or nappies, put money on the electricity meter or replace a broken fridge that they can access this help quickly and easily. Instead, families who are in desperate need may find there is nowhere to turn.

“Local charities are having to step in to provide the safety net that the government and councils used to, relying on donations and volunteers to do so.

“Sadly with more and more people facing crisis, particularly as Universal Credit rollout continues apace, it’s becoming increasingly urgent for local crisis support to be coordinated and more consistent so that vulnerable people don’t fall through the gaps.”

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President Trump cancels North Korea summit

“Sadly, based on the tremendous anger and open hostility displayed in your most recent statement, I feel it is inappropriate, at this time, to have this long-planned meeting. Therefore, please let this letter serve to represent that the Singapore summit, for the good of both parties, but to the detriment of the world, will not take place.”

With these words, President Trump notified Kim Jong Un yesterday that he was canceling their June 12 summit in Singapore.

This decision followed a series of ominously worded statements from North Korea. Their senior envoy for US affairs had threatened to call off the summit and warned that their regime could “make the US taste an appalling tragedy it has neither experienced nor even imagined.” The envoy also described Vice President Pence as a “political dummy.”

The White House says back channels for discussions with North Korea are still open but states that the regime must first change its rhetoric.

A “challenging threat environment”

The threat of North Korea is just one of the challenges we face as a nation.

Russia is believed to have 4,300 nuclear weapons, followed by the US with 4,000. There are 9,400 nuclear weapons in military arsenals, with another 5,600 awaiting dismantlement. Nearly 4,000 nuclear weapons are operationally available; 1,800 are ready for use on short notice.

The largest Russian bomb, if dropped on New York City, would kill 7.6 million people.

In addition, China is expanding its economic and military power and influence. Proxy wars in the Middle East involving Iran, Saudi Arabia, and Israel threaten to escalate.

Dan Coats, the US Director of National Intelligence, testified earlier this year before a Senate Select Committee on Intelligence: “We face a complex, volatile and challenging threat environment. The risk of interstate conflict is higher than any time since the end of the Cold war–all the more alarming because of the growing development and use of weapons of mass…

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Two Ebola patients die after fleeing hospital to attend church

According to aid group Medecins Sans Frontieres (MSF), three patients left of their own accord from the isolation zone of the Wangata hospital in Mbandaka city between Sunday and Tuesday.

 

Henry Gray, emergency coordinator for MSF said: “One patient had been about to be discharged.

“The two others were helped to leave the hospital by their families in the middle of the night on Monday.

“One of the men died at home and his body was brought back to the hospital for safe burial with the help of the MSF teams; the other was brought back to the hospital yesterday morning and he died during the night.”

Hospital staff made every effort to convince the patients and their families not to leave and to continue treatment, Mr Gray said.

It was not immediately clear if the two deaths reported by MSF were confirmed Ebola ones.

As of Thursday, Congo’s health ministry reported 31 confirmed Ebola cases, 13 probable ones and eight suspected.

This is Congo’s ninth Ebola outbreak since 1976, when the disease was first identified.

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Modern-day Noah’s ark set to be built by scientists

Experts in the UK claim this could be achieved if cells, tissue and DNA of every animal from around the world are preserved at temperatures of -196C in the CryoArks Biobank.

Professor Mike Bruford at Cardiff University is leading the creation of the CryoArks Biobank.

 

He told The Natural History Museum: “Collections of tissue and DNA from laboratories, zoos, aquariums and museums will come together under a single structure, providing us with an unparalleled opportunity to better manage and share the vast amount of genetic material we have.

“It will allow researchers and conservationists to access material they never thought existed – including samples from wild populations and animals that are now extinct. CryoArks is making a step change in the way that genetic material is curated, and is making it available to more scientists.”

The new £1-million biobank will be the first national bank of frozen animal material in the country.

Bruford said he hoped extracting and freezing DNA from as many threatened species as possible would providing some hope for the future, serving as a “back-up copy of a species” via their DNA, should the worst happen.

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How People Can Make the Most Out of This Year’s Memorial Day Weekend

Unsplash/Andrew PonsFlags of the United States are planted and lined up along the ground

Memorial Day weekend offers a nice break from the hectic work schedule people grind through on a daily basis.

This extended weekend is a welcome break for many people, as they take advantage of the holiday to relax as much as they can.

There are also other people who want to make use of the free time for other purposes such as doing things they simply do not have enough time for most of the year.

The one thing that is certain is that people will not be lacking for choices in terms of activities for this holiday weekend.

First and foremost, Memorial Day is about honoring those brave men and women who have paid the ultimate price for defending the United States.

As a way to honor those fallen soldiers, people can visit nearby national cemeteries and offer prayers. It’s a small gesture, but its one that lets the soldiers know that the things they did for the country will never be forgotten.

There are also military history museums that people can head to if they want to learn more about the heroic acts performed by the soldiers of years past.

One more option that will be available to people is to attend the National Memorial Day Parade. The parade will take place at Constitution Avenue in Washington, D.C. on May 28, and it will go from 2 to 4 p.m.

For folks who won’t be in the Washington, D.C. area for Memorial Day, they can still catch the parade online, as it will be streamed live on YouTube and Military.com.

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Challenges Church Personnel Committees (or Similar Groups) Face – Rainer on Leadership #435

Podcast Episode #435

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Personnel teams at churches have a difficult job because they’re often tasked with oversight of people they don’t see but a few times a week. Today we discuss some of the challenges they face.

Some highlights from today’s episode include:

  • To accurately assess someone’s work performance, you need to have regular oversight of their work.
  • Pastors, make sure you’re in regular communication with your personnel team.
  • All personnel confrontations and decisions should be well documented.
  • Office hours are often the most misunderstood aspect of vocational ministry.
  • Vocational ministry doesn’t have an off switch.

The seven challenges we cover are:

  1. The biggest: not being there every day
  2. Listening to only one side of the story
  3. Being unduly influenced by power groups or individuals
  4. Showing favoritism to a staff person
  5. Failing to document their work and conversations
  6. Not fully understanding vocational ministry
  7. Not fully understanding compensation and benefit issues

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Joyce Meyer’s Daily 25 May 2018 Devotional — Never Go to Bed Angry

Topic: Never Go to Bed Angry [Joyce Meyer’s Devotional Friday May 25, 2018]

Be persistent and devoted to prayer, being alert and focused in your prayer life with an attitude of thanksgiving. — Colossians 4:2

Now I don’t know about you, but I’m glad this verse is in the Bible because it helps us to build character by giving us a guideline to follow in handling our anger: Let go of anger before bedtime.

There is only one problem. What happens when we become good and mad just before bedtime? If we become mad in the morning, at least we have all day to get over it. But when we become mad close to bedtime, we have to make a quick decision.

Why is it so bad for us to go to bed angry? I think it is because while we sleep, what we are angry about has time to get a hold on us and take root in us. But the Word says, Leave no [such] room or foothold for the devil [give no opportunity to him] (see Ephesians 4:27 AMPC).

This verse tells us what happens if we refuse to get over our anger by bedtime: It opens a door for the enemy and gives Satan a foothold. Once Satan gets a foothold in our lives, then he tries to establish a stronghold.

You may wonder, Well, if I am mad, what should I do about it? Get over it! You may think, That’s easy for you to say, but you’re not in my situation. I may not be in your situation, but you are not in my situation either. We all have different situations. If you are going to live a joyful, victorious life, you have to do so by choice and not by feelings.

In Deuteronomy 30:19 (AMPC) the Lord tells us, …I have set before you life and death, the blessings and the curses; therefore choose life…. Choose life by refusing to give in to anger. Take responsibility for your anger and learn to deal with it—process it and bring closure to it, and that will relieve the pressure.

Prayer Starter: Father, I thank You that know me inside and out. Please help me to get to the root of my anger and not allow the enemy to gain a foothold in my life. Help me not to react out of my emotions, but please strengthen me to make decisions that lead to peace. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

If you missed yesterday devotional, please click to read “Joyce Meyer Daily Devotional HERE’’

From Joyce Meyer’s Ministries.

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Discounted Laptops Are Easy to Find Online

LenovoThe Lenovo Flex 5 is on sale this Memorial Day weekend

It’s hard to deal with a broken laptop.

Maybe there’s something wrong with its screen causing it to act up or perhaps a few keys are missing. Virus-infected laptops may also be beyond repair.

The good news for people looking for replacements for their old and malfunctioning laptops is that many models are on sale during this Memorial Day weekend.

There’s a model on sale for everyone, and a quick search online can turn them up.

First off, maybe the shopper would like a new Dell laptop this Memorial Day. That individual is in luck, as Dell is offering some pretty significant discounts on some of their most recognizable models.

The Dell laptop that has its price reduced the most for this Memorial Day sale is the Inspiron 14 3000. Dell has lopped off 40 percent off of its original price, making it available for $149.99. The laptop is powered by Intel’s Celeron processor, and it comes with 2 GB of memory to go with 32 GB of flash storage.

Some of Dell’s higher-end laptops are also on sale, including the New XPS 15 2-in-1. The aforementioned laptop is equipped with the 8th generation Intel Core i7 processor, 16 GB of memory as well as 256 GB M.2 solid state drive. The laptop’s main feature is the 15.6-inch 4K ultra HD InfinityEdge touch display. This Dell laptop is on sale for the discounted price of $2,049.99.

Moving on now to Lenovo, they have some interestingly-designed laptops on sale for Memorial Day.

The 15-inch variant of the Flex 5 2-in-1 laptop comes with a convertible touchscreen that “moves with” the user, according to Lenovo….

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