A Martyr Refused to Deny Christ When Beheaded and His Widow Has a Startling Reaction

Charisma News reports – Imagine ISIS kidnapped a relative of yours and then you see their brutal beheading on television. Many different emotions can take over, including anger, grief, and depression.

CBN News found a group of Egyptian Christians, however, who responded much differently. They are happy their family members stood firm in their faith.

Widow Mariam Farhat told us she “was very proud” that her husband “stood firm in his faith and that he didn’t deny Jesus.”

That surprising reaction is happening 150 miles south of Cairo, in the village of Al Aour.

Residents there honor the sacrifice of 21 Egyptians brutally murdered last February by ISIS. Their pictures are prominently displayed in the sanctuary of Virgin Mary Church.

Thirteen attended the church. The martyrs left behind family members like 23-year-old Farhat. She became a widow when the militants beheaded her husband Malak Ibrahim in Libya.

She first learned of his murder when she saw the now infamous video on local television.

“We were very sad for the first two days, but we hadn’t seen the video,” she recalled. “When we saw them in the video calling to Jesus we were very comforted.”

And that’s why Mariam and other families say they are now joyful, not sad.

Bebawy Al Ham’s brother Samuel was among those killed.

“We were always praying that God would make them steadfast in their faith,” Bebawy told CBN News. “We were very happy with what they said on the video: ‘Jesus Christ have mercy on us.’ When we found out they had been killed for being Christian, we were very comforted, because these were God’s children and he took them.”

Although Samuel’s wife and children now live without a husband and father, his family told CBN News their faith is stronger; they forgive the jihadists, and even pray for ISIS.

“I pray for them that God may open their hearts, and they may know the truth and know that what they do is wrong and then do the right thing,” Bebawy said.

“Jesus told us to forgive every sin and we forgive them and we hope that they can come to know Jesus,” he said.

Egyptian Christians are encouraged to know they are not alone. In the United States there’s a growing movement among Christians to demonstrate unity and solidarity with those who are suffering for Christ in the Middle East.

Rev. Patrick Mahoney, director of the Christian Defense Coalition, explained.

“What we thought was how could we identify and stand in solidarity with our brothers and sisters in Christ who are being brutalized around the world for their Christian faith?” he said. “What tangible thing could we do, what practical thing could we do?”

Immediately, orange jumpsuits came to mind. Mahoney and others launched the #orangejumpsuitcampaign. The movement has expanded to orange scarves, sweaters, and ribbons.

“It’s to remind our brothers and sisters that we love them, and we’re standing with them and to remind decision makers here in America and across the globe–the free nations of the world—we cannot be silent on this issue,” Mahoney said.

He said the response has been amazing. Non-Christians have joined in as well.

“A Jewish rabbi, to stand in solidarity with persecuted Christians is dying his beard orange, which I think is incredible and I can’t wait to see that,” Mahoney said.

Mariam was encouraged after she viewed cell phone photos of Americans wearing orange.

“May the Lord make their love grow and grow. We are very happy with their love and we don’t deserve their love,” she told CBN News.

Mahoney said every five minutes around the world a Christian is killed for his faith.

“People don’t understand the kind of barbarism and brutality they are going through,” he said. “And you know when I visit persecuted Christians in the Middle East there is one thing that they always ask–it doesn’t matter if it is Iraq, Syria, wherever it might be– it’s this: ‘Please remember us!'”

And wearing orange on the job or at church helps people remember them.

“I think people need to understand that if we do not act quickly, the public expression of Christianity may be extinguished in the Middle East. As Elie Weisel, Holocaust survivor and Nobel Peace Prize winner, says, “we must always take sides. Silence only helps the oppressor, never the oppressed,'” Mahoney said.

Mariam also has a message for others who have suffered or still face danger from ISIS.

“Don’t be sad or cry. God will support us all,” he said. “And he will fulfill his promise that he is the father of the orphans and the widows.”

Two Minnesota Catholic Bishops Resign Amid Sex Abuse Probe

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    The Most Reverend John C. Nienstedt, head of the Roman Catholic Archdiocese of St. Paul and Minneapolis.

Christian Post Report – Two bishops from a Catholic Archdiocese have announced their resignation over an investigation into the potential failures of the church body to protect minors from a sexually abusive priest.

The Vatican recently accepted the resignations of Archbishop John Nienstedt and Auxiliary Bishop Lee Anthony Piche, both of the Archdiocese of St. Paul and Minneapolis.

These resignations were connected to an ongoing investigation regarding the archdiocese’s culpability in the criminal actions of a pedophile priest.

“The criminal charges against the archdiocese stem from its handling of Curtis Wehmeyer, a former priest at Church of the Blessed Sacrament in St. Paul, who is serving a five-year prison sentence for molesting two boys and faces prosecution involving a third boy in Wisconsin,” reported NBC News.

“Prosecutors say church leaders failed to respond to ‘numerous and repeated reports of troubling conduct’ by Wehmeyer from the time he entered seminary until he was removed from the priesthood in 2015.”

Nienstedt had already stepped down from most of his duties as archbishop following a probe into allegations he had abused a minor back in 2009.

In December 2013, Nienstedt voluntarily stepped down pending the police investigation, saying in a statement that the allegations were “absolutely and entirely false.”

“I have never once engaged in any inappropriate contact with a minor and I have tried to the very best of my ability to serve this Archdiocese and the church faithfully,” stated Nienstedt.

As part of the process of Nienstedt stepping down in late 2013, Auxiliary Bishop Lee Anthony Piche assumed his responsibilities for the archdiocese.

News of the two leaders’ resignations comes not long after Vatican City announced the creation of a tribunal to deal with cases regarding bishops who failed to report sex abuse in their dioceses.

“Pope Francis will appoint a secretary and permanent staff for the new department, which will have a five year period to develop and evaluate the effectiveness of these new procedures,” noted Vatican Radio last week.

“The move marks an important step in the ongoing process to hold Church leaders accountable for the actions of abusive priests — something that abuse survivors have insisted is essential to both the healing and prevention efforts.”

Barbara Dorris, outreach director for the group Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests, said in a statement shared with The Christian Post that she and her organization wanted more action taken against Nienstedt.

“Though he has resigned, we still believe Neinstedt should be punished for enabling a predator to hurt kids,” said Dorris on Monday morning.

“We hope these Vatican panels will quickly take up the Neinstedt case so that cover-ups will be deterred and kids will be safer.”

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Scientists Praise Pope Francis’ Encyclical on Climate Change, Foresee ‘Unbelievable’ Impact on Over 1 Billion Catholics, Challenge to Skeptics

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Christian Post Report – Pope Francis arrives to lead a special audience for Vatican employees at the Paul VI’s hall at the Vatican, Rome, Italy, December 22, 2014.

Scientists are praising Pope Francis’ upcoming encyclical on climate change, a major written work calling on Christians to care for the planet and reverse harmful effects, which is set to be released on Thursday.

“The encyclical is going to go out to over 1 billion Catholics — that’s a way of getting a message across to a segment of society that the scientific community could never do,” said Jeff Kiehl of National Center for Atmospheric Research, according to USA Today. “I mean it’s just unbelievable.”

NASA climatologist Gavin Schmidt added:

“The pope’s encyclical is probably going to have a bigger impact than the Paris negotiations,” he said, referring to a major U.N. climate change conference set for December.

The document will put into written words the pontiff’s numerous calls for people to take care of the planet, which he calls God’s creation, that he has made throughout his papacy.

Francis agreed with U.N. Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon back in April that tackling climate change is both a “scientific reality” and an urgent world issue.

“The relationship of mankind with nature must not be conducted with greed, manipulation and exploitation, but it must conserve the divine harmony that exists between creatures and Creation within the logic of respect and care, so it can be put to the service of our brothers, also of future generations,” the pope has said.

Francis, who holds a master’s degree in chemistry and a history of environmental concern, has agreed with scientists that people bear a great responsibility for climate change.

“Mostly, in great part, it is man who has slapped nature in the face,” the Roman Catholic Church leader has said.

Father Michael Perry, minister general of the Order of Friars Minor in the U.S., pointed out that the title of the encyclical, “Laudato Si,” is a reference to a hymn by St. Francis of Assisi that emphasizes being in the harmony of God with other creatures and with other human beings.

Perry said, according to Catholic News Service, that the canticle “is not just a flowery song about how we should live with nature. It is challenging us to revise our entire way of living our lives” in accordance with Gospel values, he said. “If someone is starving somewhere in the world, we are responsible.”

He added that the document will highlight the Vatican’s call for the entire church to be in solidarity with the poor, strive for peace, and respect the planet.

Perry suggested that the encyclical is not supposed to “shame” those who disagree with scientists, but is Francis’ way of promoting dialogue and trying to be “the bearer of that white flag,” calling on all of “God’s children” to care for creation.

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Greg Laurie Shares Jesus’ Teachings on Israel and the End Times Prophecy: ‘America Needs Israel More Than Israel Needs America’

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California megachurch pastor Greg Laurie shared with the congregation of his Harvest Church on Sunday what Jesus taught about Israel in the end times, and said that the United States needs Israel more than Israel needs America.

Israel is a tiny little piece of land, and yet we hear so much about the country in news, Laurie said in his message, titled, “What Jesus taught about Israel in the end times.”

“Israel is at the eye of the hurricane of the great events of the end times,” he stated.

Laurie added that God has said that He will bless those who bless Israel and curse those who curse Israel.

“One of the reasons God has blessed the United States is because of our support to Israel. … America needs Israel more than Israel needs America … because we need the blessing of God,” the pastor said.

Israel is under attack from all sides, he emphasized. It is also under pressure, including from the U.S., he went on to say, referring to the recent 50-day conflict between Israel and Gaza. More than 4,500 rockets were fired from Gaza into Israel, and America pressured Israel to stand down, the pastor said, disapprovingly.

What’s common between the enemies of Israel and the enemies of the U.S. is that they are radical Islamists, and their objective is to establish a Caliphate through jihad and rule through Shariah, Laurie added.

He said the Islamic State terror group is targeting Christians in the Middle East and elsewhere.

Both Sunni and Shiite radical Muslim groups want Jerusalem, he said, quoting Zechariah 12:2-3, “I am going to make Jerusalem a cup that sends all the surrounding peoples reeling. Judah will be besieged as well as Jerusalem. On that day, when all the nations of the Earth are gathered against her, I will make Jerusalem an immovable rock for all the nations. All who try to move it will injure themselves.”

Laurie preached his message mainly from Matthew 24 and 1 Thessalonians 5.

“The Bible is the one book that dares to predict the future … with 100 percent accuracy,” he said, adding that about 30 percent of the Bible is prophecy, and that God wants us to know these prophecies. “The more we know about the next world, the better we’ll live in this one.”

According to Ezekiel 37:11-12, Israel will be re-gathered as a nation, the pastor said. The re-gathering of Israel will be the super-sign of the end times, he explained.

He quoted Matthew 24:32-34, “Now learn this parable from the fig tree: When its branch has already become tender and puts forth leaves, you know that summer is near. So you also, when you see all these things, know that it is near — at the doors! Assuredly, I say to you, this generation will by no means pass away till all these things take place.”

After the re-gathering of Israel, an attack will follow from the north of Israel — and it could possibly be from Russia or Iran, he said. But God will intervene and frustrate their plans, he added.

The Bible prophecy is not to scare us, but to prepare us, he said, and reminded the congregation that Jesus said, “I will come again.”

He read 1 Thessalonians 5:7-8, which reads: “For those who sleep, sleep at night, and those who get drunk, get drunk at night. But since we belong to the day, let us be sober, putting on faith and love as a breastplate, and the hope of salvation as a helmet.”

Your reaction to the promise of Christ’s coming is a litmus test of where you stand in your belief, he said.

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Are Modern Career Women Longing for Chivalry?

Are Modern Career Women Longing For Chivalry?

Christian Post Report – I don’t know if you’ve ever watched the long-running, and recently departed, television series, “Mad Men.” Frankly, as a Christian, I really can’t recommend it to you.

Set during the 1960s in New York City and depicting the go-go advertising industry on Madison Avenue —hence the title, “Mad Men”— the cleverly written series is full of values and behavior that, shall we say, cross the line. Okay, that’s an understatement: sexism runs rampant through the series and hot-shot male executives chase skirts as much as they do clients in the office pool. But all of this is why I found an article about the show in the New York Post so intriguing.

Writer Heather Robinson says that many single career women in their 30s and 40s in Gotham these days look wistfully at “Mad Men” and the simpler era it depicts, when men dressed up for dates, held the door for women, and actually had to work for their attention.

Read more at http://www.christianpost.com/news/mad-men-and-christian-chivalry-what-women-want-from-men-140116/

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The Gungors: That’s an Expensive Sunday School!

The Gungors: That's An Expensive Sunday School!

Christian Post Report – Popular alternative Christian rock musician Michael Gungor of the musical collective Gungor, along with an eclectic mix of people belonging to a group called The Liturgists, is offering 100 people a $300 chance to join the group in a high level conversation expected to, among other things, discuss the “cultural ghettoes” of the church and secular society.

The event billed “Belong,” is expected to feature a conversation with several members of the creative group including Gungor, who rattled the Orthodox Christian world last year with the revelation that he does not believe in a literal interpretation of the Bible.

Read more at http://www.christianpost.com/news/christian-singer-michael-gungors-liturgists-group-charging-100-people-300-to-question-orthodox-beliefs-of-the-church-140294/

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Christian ‘Tied Up Like an Animal,’ Tortured and Forced to Eat Trash for Preaching the Gospel in Eritrean Prison

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Christian Post Report – An African migrant from Eritrea holds a placard during a protest near the Ministry of Defence in Tel Aviv October 18, 2012.

A Christian man has shared his story of how he was imprisoned, tortured, and starved for his faith in an Eritrean prison, shedding light on some of the abuses the U.N. Commission of Inquiry on Human Rights has recently accused the government of carrying out.

“They take you outside in the hot sun with nothing to make you suffer and leave you out in the cold at night. … I was praying and God told me, ‘Don’t be afraid. It will pass. Stand in your faith,'” the man, identified as ‘Yohan,’ told International Christian Concern.

The persecution watchdog group added that Yohan had been “tied up like an animal” and forced to eat “trash mixed with dirty rain water,” while bound outside and exposed to torrential rains, a burning desert sun at day and bitter cold nights.

The Christian had been sent to jail in 2003 for preaching the Gospel after he was forcibly conscripted at age 18, which is illegal in Eritrea.

“They don’t allow preaching and they don’t allow religious movements,” Yohan said. “They are afraid always if people get together in groups. … They know if they gather to make fellowship, they think it will turn into a movement to end their power. They don’t allow very large groups of people to gather for any reason.”

There are only three legal Christian denominations in Eritrea, namely Catholic, Lutheran, and Orthodox; all others are banned.

Yohan managed to escape prison and fled to Sudan in 2004, and eventually made his way to the U.S., where he now lives under asylum.

Last week, the U.N. Commission released a 28-page report that found “systematic, widespread and gross human rights violations have been and are being committed in Eritrea,” and said that some of the government’s actions may constitute “crimes against humanity. “

The report accused the Eritrean government of using torture, imprisonment and fear to control the population.

“Torture is either directly ordered by officials or inflicted with their consent and acquiescence. The recurrence, coherence and similarities of the many torture incidents documented are a clear indication of the existence of a deliberate policy to inflict torture in a routine manner during investigations and interrogations, as well as during national service,” the U.N. said.

“Perpetrators of torture enjoy general impunity. The commission concludes that the government is accountable for the widespread torture inflicted on Eritreans throughout the country.”

Journalists have also been routinely targeted by the government, as the watchdog group Reporters Without Borders pointed out.

“The international community will no longer be able to ignore the situation in Eritrea. It is crucial that the mandate of the special rapporteur on the situation of human rights in Eritrea is renewed so that she can continue investigating a country that is an information black hole,” the group said.

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Os Guinness: Why Balaam’s Ass Is the Patron Saint of Apologetics and Christians Need to Recover the Art of Persuasion (CP Interview 1/2)

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    Book cover for Fool’s Talk: Recovering the Art of Christian Persuasion by Os Guinness (2015).

Christians have lost the art of persuasion and they need to get it back, Christian author Os Guinness argues in his new book, Fool’s Talk: Recovering the Art of Christian Persuasion.

Balaam’s ass is the patron saint of apologetics, Guinness likes to say, because the story from Numbers 22 illustrates that the key to being a good apologist is obedience to God.

In the story, Balaam is a prophet being disobedient to God. Several times, his donkey tries to turn him around, to put him on the correct path, but he is still resistant. Balaam only corrected himself when, in verse 28, “the Lord opened the mouth of the donkey,” and the donkey talked to him.

“The Lord used a dumb donkey to speak when the prophet was resistant to it. You can see there something that’s very humble, somewhat ridiculous, and the Lord is able to use him,” Guinness said in an April 24 interview with The Christian Post. “Many of us don’t have the answers to all the questions, but are we prepared to be used by the Lord? That is the key.”

Guinness is a popular Christian speaker who has authored or edited over 30 books. His most recent books were A Free People’s Suicide, The Global Public Square and Rennaissance.

Guinness waited 40 years to write Fool’s Talk, he explains in Chapter Two, because he made a promise to God that he would always do apologetics more than write about apologetics.

Christians have lost the art of persuasion, Guinness argues, by separating apologetics from evangelism. Apologetics has become about winning arguments when it should be about winning hearts, minds and people.

In this part one of his CP interview, Guinness says that Christians have been too formulaic in their evangelism. They rely on techniques that assume every non-Christian is spiritually in the same place. Christians need to first love and listen to people to understand where they are at. Francis Schaeffer modeled this approach well, he added.

In part two of the interview, Guinness tells a story about a time that pastor Rick Warren, through listening and loving, helped lead a gay activist to Christ. He also talks about another book he is working on that argues what the Church needs most right now is courage — “trusting to live the Gospel whatever the cost, whatever the consequences.”

Fool’s Talk will be available on July 5 and can be pre-ordered now.

Here is the first transcript, lightly edited, of CP’s interview with Os Guinness:

CP: What’s the main thing you hope to accomplish with this book?

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    Os Guinness has been a guest scholar at the Woodrow Wilson Center for International Studies and the Brooking’s Institution, and is the author of over 25 books.

Guinness: I’d love to help restore the much needed art of Christian persuasion. Many years ago I was at a dinner with a founder of MTV and he said, you know most pro-life supporters, or most Christians, are very good at most of the P-words except the one they most need — preaching, pronouncements, protests, picketing — he mentioned a whole string of them. But they’re not so good at the one they really need — persuasion.

In other words, we need to know how to speak to people who are not open, not interested and not needy. Most of our evangelistic methods, particularly in America, assume that people are open, interested and needy, when most people today simply aren’t. So that’s the objective of the book, to open up the art of persuasion and to suggest the ways people can learn how to do it.

CP: You say that Christians are losing the art of persuasion. Some Christian groups do not put much emphasis on evangelism to begin with. But what about Christian circles that place heavy emphasis on evangelism already; why are they failing in the art of persuasion?

Guinness: Well you’re right that too many people have gone whole hog into social justice and abandoned evangelism, and that’s tragic. We can never be faithful to Jesus and abandon evangelism.

But of people who do value evangelism, which is sadly fewer than the old days, many are using methods that are formulae and recipes, or 1-2-3-4 methods of doing things. Some of them are good. Think of the incredible fruitfulness of Bill Bright’s Four Spiritual Laws. But they’re simply not persuasive in the sense that they assume God immediately — “God has a wonderful plan for your life.” But what about people who don’t believe in God, or who at the very mention of the word “God” react like a red rag to a bull?

The fact is that Jesus never spoke to two people in the same way, and nor should we. In other words, good evangelism assumes that we talk to people, loving them enough that we listen to them, and then we know where they are. Our Lord knew immediately where people are, we don’t. So we have to listen, discern and pray, and then speak. But every communication should be tailored to the person you’re speaking to.

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Caitlyn Jenner’s Gender ‘Choice,’ NAACP Leader Rachel Dolezal’s Black Ethnicity Claim Show ‘Longing to Belong,’ Says Christian Blogger

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Christian Post Report – Rachel Dolezal, president of the Spokane chapter of the NAACP, is pictured here with New Hope Baptist Church Assistant Pastor James Watkins (L), and Senior Pastor Happy Watkins (R). Dolezal, who is white and president of the Spokane chapter of the NAACP, is accused of misrepresenting her race by portraying herself as black in an application to serve on the Citizen Police Ombudsman Commission, which is a volunteer commission.

A DesiringGod blogger notes in a blog post how America has accepted Caitlyn Jenner’s acquired gender while rejecting the black ethnicity claim of Rachel Dolezal, the leader of the Spokane chapter of NAACP, who was born white. They long to belong, she says, and the Gospel offers answers to their struggles.

“We are told, on the one hand, that we must tolerate Jenner’s choice to live as a woman, and, on the other, that we cannot tolerate Rachel Dolezal’s decision to live as a black American,” writes Jasmine Holmes, a fifth grade teacher at a classical/university model school in Minneapolis, on the website of the desiringBlog ministry.

Dolezal, a prominent civil rights leader in Washington who identified herself as black in an application to serve on the Citizen Police Ombudsman Commission, a volunteer position, is at the center of a Spokane city ethics probe after her estranged parents outed her as being white.

However, Dolezal, who is also a part-time Africana studies professor at Eastern Washington University, maintains she still considers herself to be black.

“Biology doesn’t matter when you’re born a man yet know you’re a woman, but it does matter when you’re born white but feel you should be black?” Holmes asks.

Former track and field Olympian athlete and television star, Jenner – formerly known as Bruce Jenner – recently revealed that “I’m a woman,” though not biologically.

“What makes a black American?” Holmes goes on to ask, pointing out that it’s neither skin tone and nor merely our heritage. “I have relatives that look a lot like Dolezal… My mother’s great grandfather on one side was full-blooded Cherokee, and the one on the other was full-blooded Choctaw,” she writes.

“Is it our shared experience,” she further asks. “This last facet is seen as one of the most sacred aspects of being black in America. Dolezal did not just put her hair in box braids and keep her skin tan; she has taken on the struggle of African Americans as her own. Some have said that she, as a white woman, has used her privilege to make a decision that most black Americans are not able to make: She has chosen to be black.”

We can turn to the Gospel to find the answer, she suggests, explaining, “Though gender and sexuality have become fluid concepts, we are still working hard to define the boundaries of ethnic constructs, even as the lines of ethnic delineation are muddled by the diversity of our colorful heritage. We long for identity – we long to belong.”

The Gospel helps us identify the root of our dissatisfaction with our place in the world, which is “the sin that separates us from our Father.” It also offers the cure for that “bitter root,” she adds, referring to 1 Corinthians 15:57, which says, “But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.”

“We were created in God’s image, for his glory (Genesis 1:26). That image includes male and female, as well as the beautiful display of diversity that we see in all four corners of the world,” Holmes writes.

Neither Jenner nor Dolezal was born into the body that they would have preferred, she says, adding that by changing their present status, “they are trying to change a backstory that they never wrote in the first place.”

“They are grasping to change the facts on a scantron and avoiding the true test,” she states.

It is important to recognize that “a master craftsman has chosen both our ethnicities and our genders for his glory,” she adds. “To try to live outside of those beautiful truths is to question our Creator, and to run from the purpose that he has given to every aspect of who we are — and the true joy that only he offers.”

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Saddleback Pastor on How to Have a Marriage Last a Lifetime

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What does it take for love in marriage to last a lifetime? As California’s Saddleback Church held a “Marriage Renewal Weekend” during the worship service on Sunday, Pastor Tom Holladay answered this question, sharing four qualifications for enduring love.

1 Peter 1:22 says, “You must keep on loving with all your heart,” Pastor Holladay told the congregation.

Four decisions are needed for that, he said. And those who are single should look out for these decisions or indicators when they look for a life partner, he added.

One, listen with all your heart, he shared. Open your ears to listen to your spouse so you know what she or he is going through in life, he said.

The pastor quoted James 1:19, “Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.”

We need to actively find ways to listen; it won’t happen by itself, Holladay said, encouraging spouses to have a “built-in time for listening” to each other.

But it isn’t as easy as it sounds, he acknowledged. Men and women are wired differently, and they’ll have their own ways of saying what they want to say. “Listening is hearing the other person the way they want to say,” he underlined.

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Pastor Tom Holladay preaching on marriage at Saddleback Church

The second decision is that we forgive with all your heart, Pastor Holladay said.

Acceptance and forgiveness are two different things, he cautioned. If someone is not perfect and is different, we need to accept them as they are, and not “forgive,” he explained.

Acceptance is, of course, needed, he said, quoting Romans 15:7, “Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.”

Married life is a challenge; it’s not easy, he added. In marriage, you’re living together for life, and one of the challenges is acceptance. “And even greater challenge is forgiveness,” he said.

Forgiveness is needed when someone wrongs or hurts you, he explained, quoting, Ephesians 4:32, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

“In marriage, one sinner is marrying another sinner. Of course, some of those sins are going to hurt each other in our lives together… Marriage is a union of two great forgivers,” he added.

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