“Christians make a huge amount of mistakes” when talking about self-harm, says counsellor

NHS statistics reveal that the number girls under 18 admitted to hospital after self-harm have doubled in the last 20 years – there were 13,463 treated last year, compared to 7,327 in 1997.

Annie Cluley has been a counsellor for 30 years, with most of those visiting her being Christians who want her to include the gospel in their sessions.

She told Premier that a lot of her time is spent on correcting things that her clients have heard at church which haven’t helped:

“I think I’ve had to undo an awful lot of very unhelpful remarks that Christians make and I think what I want is a good pastoral training in every church because I really feel quite strongly that people are so uneducated in this area.

“Christians make a huge amount of mistakes, and people out in the world, and thank God the (government) are spending £300 million on educating in schools – and I think I don’t care where they get good education from about what’s going with self-harm and bullying as long as there’s good input.

“On the whole I would say Christians can be quite un-doing of some of the good works – they just say – ‘Oh, let’s pray about it'”

Cluely explained what other phrases can be unhelpful but are commonly used:

“‘Bring it to foot of the Cross’ or ‘You shouldn’t be doing this, you’re a Christian’, ‘You should know better’…it’s all out of ignorance because they don’t know how to deal with it…

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Parents Sue Judge After He Declines Transgender Teen’s Name Change

Parents Sue Judge After He Declines Transgender Teen’s Name Change



The parents of an Ohio transgender teenager who wanted to change her name from Heidi to Elliott are suing the judge who told them the teen wasn’t mature enough to make the decision.


Judge Joseph Kirby in June refused the request of Kylin and Stephanie Whitaker to change the name of their 15-year-old child who was born a female but identifies as a male.


Kirby noted that “children change significantly and rapidly” and argued that the teen might grow up and regret her decision. The teen can come back at age 18 to complete the process, Kirby wrote.


“Age. Develop. Mature,” Kirby wrote in his decision, according to WKRC-TV.


The Whitakers and the parents of two other transgender teens filed suit Friday, Aug. 3, against Kirby.


“This process has been more complicated than it should have been,” Kylin Whitaker said, according to The Cincinnati Enquirer. “This should have been a private family matter, [but] instead we feel our rights were violated.”


Kirby, the suit says, believes widespread media attention about transgender cases is influencing children. 


“Kirby suggested that [the teen’s] expression of his gender identity was not sincere but, instead, was a result of exposure of media coverage to the transition of Caitlyn Jenner,” the suit says.


Michael Foust is a freelance writer. Visit his blog, MichaelFoust.com


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New YouVersion App ‘Bible Lens’ Gets Over 265,000 Installs in 3 Days

(Photo: Courtesy of Life.Church)YouVersion Bible App

A new free app from the people behind YouVersion Bible App has gotten more than 265,000 installations in less than three days, making it the second most installed app.

Known as the Bible Lens, the free app was launched last Friday. By Sunday evening, Bible Lens was number two on the most installed apps, second only to YouTube: Watch, Listen, Stream and ahead of free apps like Messenger, Snapchat, and Instagram.

The Bible Lens app takes relevant Bible verses and matches them with a person’s photos, creating visually appealing, sharable artwork, the creators say.

Bobby Gruenewald, founder of YouVersion and a pastor at Life.Church, said in a statement that while “technologies emerge and create new possibilities, it’s important to us that the Bible be at the forefront of innovation.”

“We believe Bible Lens will make it easier for people to see connections between the Bible and their everyday lives, and we’re encouraged by the number of people who have shown an interest in engaging with the Bible in this way,” stated Gruenewald.

The launch of Bible Lens comes weeks after YouVersion celebrated its 10th anniversary, having been launched on July 10, 2008.

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Turkey imposes sanctions on US over imprisoned American pastor

President Recep Tayyip Erdogan announced the decision in Ankara during his ‘100 days performance’ meeting on Saturday and said Turkey had been “patient” since the US sanctions were imposed.

“Those who think that they can make Turkey take a step back with ridiculous sanctions have never known this country or this nation,” Mr Erdogan said.

 

“We have never bowed our heads to such pressure and will never do so.”

Andrew Brunson, a 50 year old evangelical pastor from Black Mountain in North Carolina, was arrested in December 2016 and later charged with links to a failed plot to overthrow the Turkish government in July 2016.

He faces a prison sentence of up to 35 years if he is convicted of espionage and terror-related charges.

Despite the announcement of sanctions, Erdogan called for a return to the two country’s partnership.

Mr Erdogan insisted the row over the pastor shouldn’t come between the two country’s relationships.

“We think there is no problem we cannot solve with the American administration,” he said.

 

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Another Severe Earthquake Hits Indonesia, Killing 98

Another Severe Earthquake Hits Indonesia, Killing 98



A 6.9 magnitude earthquake hit Indonesia Sunday night, one week after the nation experienced a 6.4 magnitude earthquake, which killed 15 and injured 162 people.


This earthquake struck the tourist island of Lombok, killing 98 people and injuring hundreds. Though very popular with visitors, those killed in the earthquake, Sunday, were Indonesian nationals. Officials are still searching for missing people among the rubble and estimate that the number of dead and injured persons will climb.


Due to the previous earthquake in Indonesia, last weekend, structures on the island of Lombokwere already weakened. This latest 6.9 magnitude quake caused buildings to crumble and collapse, killing and injuring those who fled to the streets.


The shocks of the earthquakes could be felt in Bali, another tourist island, neighboring Lombok, with aftershocks continuing through the night. The total of those killed in Bali due to the earthquake are only two at this time.


According to Indonesia’s Sutopo Purwo Nugroho, head of the Disaster Management Department, the number of those displaced by the earthquake has risen to 20,000.


Thousands of tourists who were visiting Lombok convened on the Gili Islands to be evacuated. Due to low tide, they were previously unable to leave, however, according to CNN, nine ships are now scheduled to transport them off the islands.


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Willow Creek pastor quits over church’s handling of Bill Hybels allegations

Steve Carter (pictured above)who has been described as one of Hybels’ heirs, wrote on his blog that he had made the decision some time ago following the church’s handling of the allegations.

Hybels has been accused of sexual misconduct, with the latest claim being made in the New York Times that he indecently touched a former assistant.

 

While Hybels stood down from church ministry when the allegations first surfaced, he denied wrongdoing but apologised for being “unwise” and potentially misleading people.

Willow Creek has faced much criticism over its handling of the situation. Previous to the allegations being made public and internal investigation cleared him of any misconduct.

Ten women have now come forward with allegations.

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Responding to the situation, Steve Carter wrote: “Since the first women came forward with their stories, I have been gravely concerned about our church’s official response, and its ongoing approach to these painful issues.

“After many frank conversations with our elders, it became clear that there is a fundamental difference in judgment between what I believe is necessary for Willow Creek to move in a positive direction, and what they think is best.

“That is not to say that I am right and they are wrong. But I must follow the path that I believe God has laid out for me to live with integrity,…

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‘We’re thrilled with God’s blessing’, Bible website marks 25 years

Founded in 1993 – when the internet was still in its infancy – Bible Gateway has since received more than 14 billion visits and grown to offer translations of scripture in more than 70 languages.

Content manager, Jonathan Petersen told Premier: “We’re thrilled with God’s blessing on Bible Gateway.

 

“You never know where God is going to take you.

“We’re just very happy with how people are interacting with us – and how they are able to use Bible Gateway for their own benefit, Bible reading and study.”

More than 200 versions of the Bible are now available on Bible Gateway, which also offers audio services featuring readers including David Suchet.

The service was originally used as internal Bible research computer tool for theology students at Calvin College in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

 

Explaining how people use the free website in different ways, Jonathan Petersen said: “People will come and quickly look for a Bible verse. When they find, then they leave.

“Other people come to Bible Gateway on a regular basis. They are wanting to read different Bible translations side-by-side, comparing them.”

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Bill Hybels Faces New Allegations of Sex Abuse; Willow Creek’s Steve Carter Resigns

(Screenshot: Willowcreek.tv)Bill Hybels, founder of Willow Creek Community Church in South Barrington, Illinois, speaks to the congregation in October 2017.

Another woman has come forward and accused Willow Creek Community Church founding pastor Bill Hybels of groping and performing unwanted sex acts in the 1980s. Following the new allegations, Lead Teaching Pastor Steve Carter announced his resignation over disagreement with how the church has handled sexual misconduct allegations against Hybels. 

Hybels, who retired prematurely in April from Willow Creek Community Church, a nondenominational megachurch in Illinois, after several women accused him of sexual misconduct, which he denied, was the subject of fresh allegations in an article by The New York Times on Sunday.

Pat Baranowski, who says she served as Hybels’ gatekeeper, fielding calls from pastors across America, revealed that at first she felt blessed by God when in 1985 she was invited to move into the home of Hybels and his wife, Lynne.

On one occasion when she and Hybels were alone, however, she says that he groped her.

“Stunned, she remembered feeling unable to say no to her boss and pastor as he straddled her, unhooked her bra and touched her near her breasts. She remembered feeling his hands shake,” the…

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Why “The Bachelorette” is such a bad idea

It seems I could comment on celebrity news every morning.

For instance, Patrick Stewart “stunned” fans with his weekend announcement that he will play Captain Jean-Luc Picard in a new Star Trek series. Russia has named US actor Steven Seagal its special representative for Russian-US humanitarian ties.

And two elderly men in Germany escaped their nursing home to attend a heavy metal rock concert. They were eventually discovered and escorted from the festival.

We might think tonight’s Bachelorette live finale fits into the same category–amusing but less than relevant to real life. Here’s why we’d be wrong.

Contestant shamed for his virginity

The Bachelorette has been on television for fifteen years. You probably know the premise: A woman is presented with a group of men who want to marry her. Various dates and activities narrow the group down to a final three contestants.

She then spends time in the “Fantasy Suite” with each of them, no cameras allowed. She usually has sex with each of the three men. (I will not link to articles explaining this fact since they are explicit.)

The “Bachelorette” then narrows the group to the final two and chooses the winner in the finale.

So much is wrong with this show. The idea that people could choose their life partner on the basis of contrived events in front of cameras is implausible in the extreme. (The Bachelor, which began in 2002, has produced only one couple that is still together. Only six couples from The Bachelorette are still together.)

The sexual message is especially troubling. The show teaches our children that having sex with someone before marrying them is both normal and wise. After all, our culture asks, how can you know if you’re “compatible”?

Sex before marriage is so endorsed by Hollywood that one of this season’s Bachelorette contestants was shamed for his virginity. Colton Underwood, a former football player who spent time with several NFL teams, was ridiculed by…

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Pacquiao references Bible to refute Pope's death penalty ruling

Christian professional boxer and politician Manny Pacquiao has reaffirmed his belief in capital punishment following the Pope declaring the death penalty unacceptable in all cases.

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