Choosing life despite inevitable sorrow: The story behind Abel Speaks

In the summer of 2015, my husband, Daniel, and I discovered we were pregnant and that our first child was a little boy! 

On the same phone call, however, we learned that our son was conceived with a life-limiting chromosomal abnormality known as Trisomy 18.

Nothing can prepare you for that moment. 

The future you envisioned with your child begins slipping away. Instantly, I had to come to grips with the reality that our baby’s life would more than likely be short if his diagnosis held true. 

So, the question instantly emerged: What ought a family do in a situation like ours? 

A ‘better’ choice?

Some people, such as the first specialist we saw, encourage abortion as a means of hitting reset in order to try again for a “better” one, which is to say, a healthier one. 

Others believe it would be “better” to terminate the pregnancy at that point, in the sense that it would be emotionally easier. “If you’re going to lose this child at some point, why torture yourselves by dragging out the inevitable? Wouldn’t it be best and easiest for everyone to just end it now and try again?” 

I believe that this line of thinking is rooted in a caring consideration for the parents and offered with the best of intentions. It’s not hard to comprehend and even empathize with why abortion would be considered in a situation like ours. 

However, I humbly propose that such a conclusion is built upon two faulty assumptions. 

The emotional fallacy

Emotionally, the faulty assumption is that joy and sorrow are incompatible and that anything in life can fall into one of those two buckets—but never both. 

I cannot subscribe to that premise for two reasons: 

  1. Regardless of your worldview or faith persuasion, the human experience shows us that joy and sorrow are not mutually exclusive. In fact, I think we consistently find that the two are tied at the hip. Is it not true that life is an ever-swirling blend of…

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Church of England invests millions in church-run sports clubs

The £12 million comes from the Renewal and Reform program, which aims to grow the church’s attendance among all classes, races and generations. 

Some of the money will be going towards sports clubs in deprived areas to help alleviate crime and spread the gospel.

One church that will benefit from the money is Christ Church Anerly in South London, who are already running a Christian boxing club for 13-19 year olds and an evangelistic Bible study for ex-offenders.

 

 

The pastor there, Rev Matthew Fitter, told Premier he has conducted two funerals for victims of knife crime in his area and that was what persuaded him the boxing club was worth doing.

“The reason that convinced us to go for it is it is definitely distinctively Christian. So, we have a professional boxing coach who comes and does the actual boxing, training, the fitness, the boxing moves, all of those things. But then for the last 10 minutes of every session we have unashamedly Christian content where either an ex-offender, or somebody, shares the difference that Jesus has made to them and so for me, the way that I’m comfortable with it is because it is definitely Christian, both in the way that we set it up and also in the way that we run it.”

The pastor explained how the Christian content had been received by those going to the boxing club: “They’ll have done an hour and 20 minutes of fitness and…

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Two Mass Shootings in Less than 24-Hours Leave 29 Dead, 53 Injured

Two Mass Shootings in Less than 24-Hours Leave 29 Dead, 53 Injured



The nation was struck by grief this weekend after two mass shootings occurred in less than 24-hours. 


Saturday morning at around 10:30 a.m., shots rang out in an El Paso, Texas Walmart leaving 20 people dead and 26 people injured. 


Reportedly, 21-year-old Patrick Crusius walked into a retail center and began to shoot at customers, many of whom were back to school shopping. According to NBC News, the shooter reportedly posted a white nationalist manifesto online less than a half an hour before taking the lives of 20 people. CNN reports that authorities are treating the El Paso shooting as a domestic terrorist attack. 


El Paso Police Sargent Robert Gomez shared in a news conference Sunday evening that the suspected shooter has been arrested and is being charged with capital murder. The 21-year-old is being held without bond. 


According to CNN, Crusius appeared to have turned himself in. Arrested in the Walmart parking lot, CNN reports that as law enforcement units arrived at his parked car, he got out of the vehicle unarmed and walked over to law enforcement officers. He was arrested without incident.


1,600 miles away and several hours later, another round of shots rang out, this time, in Dayton, Ohio. Outside of the Ned Peppers Bar in Dayton, Ohio, 24-year-old Connor Betts is believed to have opened fire using a .223-caliber rifle killing 9 people and injuring…

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Church member guilty of murdering 20 year old student

Shohfah-El Israel, whose birth name is Ajibola Shogbamimu, was convicted by a jury at Reading Crown Court of killing Joy Morgan after spending time alone with her – against strict church rules – in December.

The 20-year-old midwifery student’s body has never been recovered, despite extensive police searches of hundreds of acres of land in Hertfordshire.

Israel was convicted by a jury of eight women and four men on a single count of murder.

 

 

He lied to the police when he was arrested, saying he had dropped Ms Morgan off at her student accommodation in Hatfield after a celebratory dinner at the American-founded Israel United in Christ Church they attended in Ilford, east London, on December 26.

He later admitted he had in fact spent two nights alone with the University of Hertfordshire student in his Cricklewood flat, but claimed his lies were due to concerns about having broken church rules banning women from being alone with men other than their husbands.

After killing Ms Morgan he attempted to cover his tracks by removing her number from a church Telegram group chat, the court heard, and even kept up the pretence by going to her student house share under the guise of checking on her in the days after she apparently went missing.

A signal from Ms Morgan’s phone, which has never been found, was detected in Israel’s car in the Stevenage area on December 28, at which…

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The Ten Most Challenging Counseling Issues Pastors Face

Among the many responsibilities of pastors is counseling church members. Some pastors spend a lot of time counseling members. Others do limited counseling before referring the member to someone they view to be more qualified.

But all pastors are counselors.

We took the opportunity to ask pastors on social media about the most challenging issues they face when they do counseling. While there were some definite outliers, these ten were among the most frequent responses.

  1. Marital infidelity. Many pastors lamented the horrendous damage done to marriages and families when one or more of the spouses are not faithful.
  2. Divorce. Obviously, the first two are related. A number of pastors said that those who come to them with divorce on their minds usually have their minds made up. Counseling is either a formality or an appeasement toward a favorable divorce settlement.
  3. Sexual and physical abuse. Some pastors said this issue was the fastest-growing topic in counseling. They don’t think sexual and physical abuse is new; more victims are now willing to come forward.
  4. Mental health issues. Depression and anxiety were mentioned frequently, but others were noted such as schizophrenia and borderline personality disorder.
  5. Teen sexual issues. More teens are seeking help with issues of sexual identity, sexual pressure, and sexually transmitted diseases.
  6. Addiction. Though alcoholism is still very much an issue, a number of pastors spoke of other addictions such as heroin and other opioids.
  7. Church conflict. Church…

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