Joshua Harris Says ‘I Kissed Dating Goodbye’ Will Be Discontinued, Apologizes for ‘Flaws’

(Photo: Facebook; Amazon)Pastor Joshua Harris and his his career-making book published in 1997, ‘I Kissed Dating Goodbye.’

Pastor Joshua Harris, author of I Kissed Dating Goodbye, has released a statement apologizing for his best-selling book and announcing that he will be discontinuing its publication.

“I no longer agree with its central idea that dating should be avoided,” Harris wrote in a lengthy message posted on his personal website. “I now think dating can be a healthy part of a person developing relationally and learning the qualities that matter most in a partner.”

“In light of the flaws I now see in I Kissed Dating Goodbye, I think it’s best to discontinue its publication, as well other supplemental resources tied to it (this includes the two books I wrote after it whose content is similar),” he continued. “My publisher, whose encouragement in this process has been deeply meaningful to me, supports this decision and will not reprint the books after the current copies in their inventory are sold.”

Written in 1997, when Harris was just 20 years old and had not yet been in a dating relationship, I Kissed Dating Goodbye highlights the problems with contemporary “recreational dating” and presents “biblical courtship” as an alternative. Traditional dating, he says, is “a training ground for divorce” because it puts people in the habit of quitting relationships when things get tough. In his book, Harris also urges Christian singles to commit to “purposeful singleness,” arguing that romantic relationships should exist only as a means to preparing for marriage.

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Christian and Jewish leaders reaffirm commitment

It was founded in 1942 amid the turmoil of the Second World War and has become the leading nationwide forum for Jewish-Christian engagement.

The Council says Christian/Jewish relations have grown strong and flourished in the UK during the past 75 years.

However, it recognises that global society is living through a period of increased hatred, extremism, and polarisation and that, in the UK, antisemitism and antisemitic discourse has become more noticeable in public life and within social media.

The Council members who are leaders of the Jewish and Christian communities in the UK state that antisemitism has no place in British society and call on those in positions of power and influence to listen to such concerns.

They also commit to speaking out on anti-Christian sentiment and persecution of Christians in many parts of the world today.

CCJ Chair, Bishop Michael Ipgrave said: “It has been very encouraging to see the renewed endorsement which our Christian and Jewish Presidents have given to CCJ as we complete our 75th anniversary year.

“We are grateful for their support, as we feel that our work is of ever increasing importance in our society at this time, with rising levels of antisemitism and increasing xenophobia and discrimination towards minority communities.”

CCJ Director Elizabeth Harris-Sawczenko said: “These are challenging times, nationally and globally.

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Eugene Peterson, Author of ‘The Message’ and Pastor to Other Pastors, Dies at Age 85

Eugene Peterson, Author of ‘The Message’ and Pastor to Other Pastors, Dies at Age 85



(RNS) — Eugene Peterson, the best-selling author of “The Message” and longtime pastor praised as a “shepherd’s shepherd,” passed away Monday morning (Oct. 22) at age 85.


Among Peterson’s last words were, “Let’s go,” according to a statement from his family.


“During the previous days, it was apparent that he was navigating the thin and sacred space between earth and heaven,” according to his family. “We overheard him speaking to people we can only presume were welcoming him into paradise. There may have even been a time or two when he accessed his Pentecostal roots and spoke in tongues as well.”


Peterson pastored Christ Our King Presbyterian Churcha Presbyterian Church (USA) congregation he founded in Bel Air, Md., for 30 years while also writing widely to encourage and develop other pastors.


He is best known for “The Message,” his popular paraphrase of the Bible in contemporary language that made the Bible accessible to many Christians. Altogether, he wrote more than 30 books, including his 2011 memoir “The Pastor” and the Christian classic, “A Long Obedience in the Same Direction.”


“Eugene Peterson has encouraged, formed, and often literally saved the ministry of more than one pastor over the years through his writing and thinking (I would include myself in that list),” wrote Truett Seminary…

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Bishop Michael Curry shares his worries about Christian leaders

In an interview with the Guardian, Bishop Michael Curry said many leaders of Christianity are “buying into political agendas that very often do not reflect the teaching of Jesus of Nazareth”.

“We as Christian leaders must speak up and bear witness to the values that we hold based on the teachings of Jesus. And when we fail to do so, we’ve failed to represent the Christian faith in the public sphere”. 

Bishop Michael is the current presiding bishop and primate of The Episcopal Church, a member of the global Anglican Communion. 

The Bishop, whose sermon at the royal wedding received mixed reviews from Christians, received a global platform he did not have before, which he is now using to expand more on his sermon and book, The Power of Love.

He said that Christians who claim to follow Jesus but do not obey the commands to love and serve the poor should assess their faith.

He said: “I’m concerned when I don’t hear other religious leaders standing up for immigrants in our country being treated with justice and decency. I’m concerned when I don’t hear Christian leaders advocating vociferously for the re-unification of parents and children at our borders.

“I’m concerned when I don’t hear religious leaders advocating for children to be number one on the social agenda of this country. I’m concerned when I hear silence from religious leaders after the Ku Klux…

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Museum of the Bible Pulls Dead Sea Scroll Fragments Found to be Forged

Museum of the Bible Pulls Dead Sea Scroll Fragments Found to be Forged



(RNS) — Since its grand opening nearly a year ago, the Museum of the Bible has exhibited five fragments from the storied Dead Sea Scrolls, the ancient parchment fragments discovered 70 years ago in a desert cave.


On Monday (Oct. 22) the museum acknowledged that the five fragments it had on display were forgeries. They were taken down several weeks ago and replaced with three other fragments that do not have the same anomalies.


The museum had long suspected the fragments may be forged and a sign accompanying the exhibit says scholars had raised questions about their authenticity. But last week the museum received scientific verification via digital and X-ray testing of the ink, sediment layers and chemical composition, which proved conclusively that the fragments were forged.


“This is part of our ongoing commitment to making sure we’re adhering to all legal and museum standards, that our displays are accurate, that when we have information, we make it available,” said Jeff Kloha, chief curatorial officer. “Where we had uncertainty about the documentation, we put that up on the museum website and updated labels on the displays.”


This is not the first time the museum has faced questions about the problematic origins of some of its antiquities. Many of the items in the Washington, D.C., museum were purchased beginning in 2009 by the billionaire Oklahoma-based…

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6 Christian Pastors, Authors React to Eugene Peterson’s Death

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Council voting to sell town hall to church sparks ‘anger and sadness’

The decision follows months of protests by community group Beeston Civic Society who wanted to take over the running of the hall.

Judy Sleath, chairwoman of Beeston Civic Society told Nottinghamshire Live: “People are angry. It’s not about losing it to a church; it’s about wanting to keep it for the whole community, not just part of it.

 

“It’s only us who are offering that.”

Cllr Janet Patrick urged councillors to vote against the church’s bid to buy the hall but Cllr Lee Fletcher said he believed that the Cornerstone bid was “robust”.

A plan was initially put in place to demolish the building to make way for housing, however, after considering the bids for the town hall, 24 councillors voted in favour of the building being sold to the church while 13 opposed the move. Two councillors abstained from the vote.

Cornerstone Church Nottingham

 

The church, which is a member of the Fellowship of Independent Evangelical Churches, has insisted it will ensure the hall is still available to the whole community.

Minister Pete Brown from Cornerstone Church Nottingham told Nottinghamshire Live: “We’re excited at the prospect of a building that will enable us to play a more active role in community life in Beeston and the surrounding area.

“I want us to make a genuine difference to the lives of many people in Beeston. This building would be a chance for us to…

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Altar Calls, the Perfect Pastoral Work Week, and Other Listener Questions – Rainer on Leadership #478

Podcast Episode #478

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We get a lot of questions here at Rainer on Leadership. Today, we take some time to talk about vacations with church members, altar calls, and the perfect pastoral work week.

Some highlights from today’s episode include:

  • You shouldn’t accept gifts from church members if it creates a quid pro quo situation.
  • Pastor search committees often overstate the opportunity and the willingness of a church to change.
  • Pastors, do not compromise your doctrine just to get a job.
  • Have time built into your calendar for things that energize you.

The questions we answer this time are:

MATT
There are a number of examples of calling for a response at the end of the sermon. What is some practical advice on “landing the plane” and calling your congregation to respond to the sermon?

WALLY
I have some members of the church I pastor who have asked me to go on vacation with them, all expenses paid. I want to know if there are any ethical issues with this, and how it should be handled. These are members I spend a fair amount of time with outside of church. We ride bicycles together, and share meals together. They are also leaders in the church. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

JESSE
Right now I’m looking at finishing up my last year of seminary in and have my eyes out for potential ministry opportunities God might be leading me to. Are there any warning signs I should be looking out for…

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Christian MP opposes bill to decriminalise abortion

The bill has been put forward by the Labour MP for Hull North, Diana Johnson.

It has the most significant implications for Northern Ireland, where terminations remain illegal in most circumstances.

Fiona Bruce MP tells Premier regarding Northern Ireland: “Abortion has been something which their local government has been allowed to decide since 1921. It would be quite wrong, it would be unconstitutional for us to make a decision for them.”

According to Diana Johnson MP, the Bill would remove abortion from the criminal law, allowing abortion to be regulated in the same way as all other routine medical procedures. It seeks to bring the UK into line with some states in Australia, the USA, and much of Europe in not criminally punishing women for ending their pregnancies.

Fiona Bruce tells Premier she opposes the bill because of the consequences it would have for a vulnerable woman:

“If she is in an abusive relationship, and there is no need for her to see a doctor, and no need to give a reason for having an abortion, we believe it is far more likely that vulnerable women could be pressurised into having an abortion by abusive partners.”

As a ten minute rule bill, the vote will not be binding, but if widely supported could be a first step towards changing the law.

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What would you do with $1.6 billion?

The controversy over the death of Jamal Khashoggi continues to grow. Hurricane Willa has become a Category 5 storm and will strike Mexico late tonight.

Meanwhile, Americans have also been paying attention to a news item closer to home: tonight’s Mega Millions drawing is worth $1.6 billion, the highest total in US lottery history. The jackpot could go even higher between now and then, perhaps surpassing $2 billion.

Right now, people across the US are wondering what they would do with $1.6 billion (the cash payout is $904 million). A stack of 1.6 billion dollar bills would reach more than one hundred miles into the atmosphere, three times higher than commercial jetliners. It would cover 6.4 square miles in area.

It’s the classic get-something-for-nearly-nothing dilemma. A Mega Millions ticket costs $2. The payouts are so enormous that Americans spent $77.7 billion on lottery sales in fiscal year 2018, up about $5 billion from the previous year. In 2016, lottery ticket sales eclipsed what Americans spent on movies, video games, books, music, and sports tickets–combined.

However, your odds of winning the jackpot are one in 302,575,350. You are 2,649 times more likely to die from a lightning strike.

Is materialism bad for us?

The lottery is classic Western existentialism at work: most winners spend their money on themselves. One couple bought their dream home, other properties, and a Porsche. The husband also made a record with his college band. Six years later, every penny of their fortune was gone.

Another winner spent $5.4 million on gambling in Atlantic City. After losing it all, she is penniless and lives in a trailer park. Yet another spent all her winnings on luxury goods and has nothing left.

Materialism has been linked to depression, social anxiety, decreased well-being, lower life satisfaction, and compulsive and impulsive spending. The failure of money to buy true happiness shows that the Bible is right to warn us: “Keep your life…

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